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 Men find themselves always in the speech, but only found myself listening to a woman's sake. This imbalance can be said to act in the form of the differences between men and women.
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reception in one location, I found a writer to engage in political commentary, is intently listening to a popular talk radio shows. He told her why the station will cover at this place, and Why did he is quite another local favorite. caught my attention is that he told her to listen very long time indeed. He is like a monologue-like speech was to tell her the situation on the radio receiver, radio station building and other details . Later I asked the woman whether the producers who are interested in talking about things. say have become more. some of the things I am not interested until you ask me that question, I do not even have to understand just how tired of this conversation. . From our conversation, I knew he had in 1944 to 1945, with the British Royal Air Force stationed in Greece. Since I have lived in Greece a few years, so I asks some of his experiences: What is the year of the Greek look like? Greek farm people's attitude to the British soldiers? as a British soldier during the war in Greece feel? I also provide a message to tell him after Greece after many years of evolution, what has been the changes. He did not listen to me more a description of modern Greece, but directly answer my questions, quick skip on the personal experience narrative, the history of Greece began to talk at length about. Although I am quite interested in the history of Greece , but in a real conversation, made me tired. When he does not talk even more user-friendly, I feel forced to become more nail in the listener's position.
Joint Workshop works in Chicago Dinner Feast a summer twilight, I walk around, met a neighbor is walking the dog, they stopped to chat with him. chat moment, I found on the lawn in front, is dancing fireflies twinkling light. I am new to that scene, and then tell me in detail how these signals is an effect of the hh
In these cases, men who have information can be passed to others, and they really did. On the surface, this situation does not seem to What can be curious. But surprisingly, in many cases, the men always have to be long, narrative information, provided a good women, but women are rarely comparable to the message can be transmitted to man.
With the changing times, the relationship between men and women have changed in many aspects. Today, very few men would have said so: without the existence of this statement does not guarantee women and men live together in time to no longer feel the frustration. that women are not satisfied with the circumstances, a dialogue is always magically turn into a speech. speaking with a man, a woman became a man of play the role of teachers and students is the role of the listener. If women and men can take turns playing the role of speaking and listening, then everything will be no problem, however, is not the case. As women and men used to interact with people different, will create a conversation of this form of inequality. as a woman to seek the establishment of interpersonal harmony, so they will tend to converge their abilities, not to show them. However, men are inclined to fight for the center of the stage, attention feel that the learned than others, so they will look for opportunities to obtain and disseminate knowledge.
men talk because they have specialized knowledge, who also has expertise in the dialogue, the women felt dissatisfied and surprised. But , they still may not be to fight for an opportunity to show.

masculine manner of speech that is a school dinner every department colleagues, and my right seat was a woman. dinner started, we gave each other introduce myself. in our system to tell each other do not belong, and the subjects taught, she asked me what field of study. I briefly told me of her, and then I asked her what in the study, she told me. At the end, we discuss what the research related to each other. Later on, we are on the table each and have contact with other people. I asked a man sitting across the department in which the work of making something . result, the next half hour, I know a lot about his career, his research, and even his background information. before the end of the dinner, and finally a little rest, he asked me what kind of research. When I said he was a linguist, he became excited and told me he was making a neurophysiological study of language. The results, until we got up and left the meeting, he has also been described in his study.
The above two examples, involving all my colleagues in the academic field. So, when I was in other social occasions, and when talking to non-academic researchers, the situation then? My experience is that when I asked a woman They brought my work, they often ask me about the contents of the study. When I mentioned when talking morphology, and gender differences, they will provide their own experience to support my theory. This is for me, is a pleasant experience. I do not have to fight the aperture, it will automatically stand center stage, and I often able to capture the many anecdotal and research-related. But when I mentioned to the men of my research, many people will start a speech about the language, for example, now people, especially young people how to misuse language. Other people will ask for some of the challenges, for example, question my methods. There are many people, the theme will transfer to them than I am more familiar with the area to.
course, not all men will make this response, but over the years, I met many men are so. In contrast, very few women have this tendency. However, not so manner of speaking on behalf of the men have the attitude of doing things, it is only a masculine manner of speech. There are some form of a woman's words is true, the result that they will be regarded as masculine tendencies.
gender interaction required course, and external environment, the resulting patterns of language differences, and cited a variety of fresh everyday life examples, to clarify the misunderstanding of gender dialogue. of the view that gender communication and listening is the best tool to maintain close and harmonious. The book provided by the knowledge and skills, where women can learn how to accept from a man of conflict, men from women, where you can learn how to depend on each other.