As mentioned health problems, it would take the opportunity to say that Virgin's , alternative, 99% of the virgin is definitely not sweep the house, but their , cabinets chaos, chaotic house, but they could exact from the dirty quickly find anything they want, in other words, following their appearance from the numerous and strong ability to capture the essence of. that there is such strong capacity, then the relationship between the surface of what it dirty? dirty surface does not prevent their normal life and effective work. in virgin alternative view, a successful career and do something worthwhile, important than cleaning the house all day, and more ! time is valuable, how can I clean the house used in this nonsense, repeat, no one can do, pediatrics things?!
other hand, the alternative is the virgin nature of the obsessive neat freak, not the appearance of the The over the top. a lot of people, his house is very clean, very enjoyable read, but they would wear pants just a bus ride finished Yi Zuo, they will count the sheets of RMB into virgin hh alternative is not the case, his The room is dirty and unsightly, but not allowed to wear his pants ride the bus to sit his end of the sofa, do not allow the yuan to put on the inventory sheets; another example, most people think sex is dirty, and only 1 life 2 people make love, passion one to disregard anything they simply undress to go to bed; However, the alternative N virgin and the people go to bed, they do not think that sex is dirty, they also like to flirt, but if it involves physical contact, they will ask for first hand, even if they will break no matter how good the atmosphere, not the other side can not wash your hands first! Therefore, any plan and alternative virgin sex, the best all go hand-washing brush your teeth, so as not to flirt when he asked to have sex after brush your teeth you wash your hands of the atmosphere.
pulled too far, now get down to business! good, love the development of this point, the tragedy of a formal staged! While performing the way different, but the outcome is the same:
first, the other break direct. As an alternative neurotic virgin suspicion, made him an unprecedented strengthening of the control of the other: the other side must be returned within 30 seconds SMS text message or he will begin bombing as long as you say, I will immediately disappear from your life! to be see? If you do not like me though, said it does not matter, what I have to bear it! also not allowed to leave each other; he often cry and kick all day, in tears, telling many gray feelings to each other, to this life all the grievances, vent to each other who wronged, he could finally show their vulnerable side that no one can figure hh Living in such a forced and oppressive situation, the people need self-space, people need you! Finally, it can not stand each other because of this prison, dark life, but choose to leave an alternative Virgin mm at once, a great sense of being deceived , is fooled sense of being abandoned maiden's heart from the rise of alternative, deeply hurt him, hurt him hh
above this drama is repeated several times, started an alternative Virgin withdrew from the stage of love: his / her unprecedentedly strong distrust of each other before mm emphatic always say to myself, The most credible When you will not abandon you bitter people are selfish mm, only for their own good just happy that he is nothing but a plaything of others, the use of chemicals only (this understanding seems to be more extreme, extreme, but philosophy perspective, I am still not been able to pick out what was wrong).
Second, the other was forced to break off. the one hand, the alternative is of endeavor more than a virgin, so they do not allow any weaknesses in their own existence find weaknesses to destroy. However, that dependence, loneliness, fear, even ordinary people can not tolerate, not to mention usually more personality traits, alternative think Virgin is always in contact each other, all for the sake of the other side, anything by the other, fear each other happy, hh loss of autonomy in a variety of feelings of weakness, in order to the other party without its own the situation, the alternative virgin great dignity deeply hurt themselves, in order to get rid of dependence, loneliness, fear, free from other people to the mercy of the client to become slaves of others, they began an attempt to end the relationship. In order to maintain their strong independent, N times a day they will make to each other break up, kept telling each other love take back and the attitude of contempt, but is still a fundamental attachment to each other, so the delay in the other end of the next relations can not deceive. However, who can not withstand N times a day were asked to break up the day, was told do not like themselves for their lukewarm attitude toward torture, etc., so when the other party can not afford such a fear of instability, it will do in the day promised to break up with alternative virgin, but this time, the total collapse of alternative virgin he really wants to mm This is not to end, he wants to maintain dignity in the exchanges, independent self! hh I do not know whether the abstract language of the above, I wonder if we can understand it. In order to visualize that vixen designed a specific scene I hope everyone can understand this alternative alternative virgin psychological motivations behind the behavior and help:
Virgin is working with BF on alternative QQ. suddenly BF answer the phone, but did not inform her cry, and half did not respond. Alternative Virgin started wander again: I turn everything around him? why he does not to me so nervous? hh this is how I did it? my pride? My self-esteem? My independence? how can I be a man playing this 【she thought the play with BF did not give him back his message is playing】? how he can be so lightly that I do 【her BF did not give her back her performance information is ignored】? hh I lost her love, love I became weak, I become dependent on love! I can not do!!! me to be strong, I want independence, I can not be anyone playing!!! hh I fell in love with him, I can not control their own think about him, I think it is degrading their own good, so no dignity!!! 【she felt on the other side of the missing control of her, because something in control of her, so she does not think there is no self-esteem】 hh! No! not! I am not allowed to own any weaknesses! more control does not allow me anything!!! hh I want to leave him, I want to leave him! left him, nothing can control me; left him, I do not then weak! I want to destroy all that I am weak, I am insulted something! hh I love him, so I have to leave him, or sooner or later one day I will lose myself completely as she was his slave 【 narcissism, advocating free and unrestricted】 hh Do not give me a call, and we call it a day she often made visible 【】 to break
BF: No, I said, I will not abandon you, you will not be cranky Rights
alternative virgin: I did not Luanxiang, I'm serious. I'm not as good as you think! I do not want their pain, so I do not want to see you 【she wanted to get out in time, not bogged down, and the courage to admit their shortcomings exposed】
BF: Do not think so much okay, I believe that we know God will not make fun of me
alternative virgin: but it will play a trick on me! I do not love you! I hate you! 【she felt love you I will disappear from your world, you had a dream as it hh 【her BF in retaliation for earlier phone disappeared from her world behavior; two to really disappear, to achieve the destruction of weaknesses, so that their The purpose of invincible】
BF: No, really do not!
alternative virgin: I will, I will not let myself, let others injured 【visible, she is not selfish, and always considerate of others mm She did not feel their own, so I want a broken relationship through a thorough way to achieve this no longer hurt BF purpose; also can be seen, she had abandoned the damage suffered, of fear】
BF: No, I will not give you!!! Even if the whole world to ignore you, I will not! I want you to believe me!
alternative virgin: even the end is love? even last name do not love? I do not love you! I do not love you! I do not love you! I will protect myself! even if I marry you, I will continue to go to bed with other men, betray you, hurt you, so your pain!!! 【The first , said she felt able to restore self-esteem; second, revenge each other, let him feel the pain; Third, look at each other is not love If you love your own mm, it is necessary to accept themselves and other men go to bed, otherwise not love, but to achieve certain objectives using their own】
BF: why bother, you are cheating yourself
alternative Virgin: lie to myself is you! I will, I like to go to bed with men like 【The first betrayal, survival of the fittest severe); second, However, the opportunity to retaliate if it is really coming, you will give up】
BF: you lie to yourself, lie!
alternative virgin: you lie to yourself, can not believe this fact .1 hours later, new day, I have to go away 【break after 1 hour, etc., so the arrival of a new day, we can see in their heart of hearts are attached to each other, not with each other separately】
BF: No, no, I will not , will you??? hh do not like the lonely, but afraid of two people to get along
alternative Virgin: No! so many years, I owe too much, so I'm hard to please! I like to torture people who love their , the more you love me, the more I tortured you. torture you and I hurt, but I can not myself. Yes, although the pain of loneliness, but will numb; used two people to face loss, more pain! I have not effort to afford more pain, no, no, no! You have hurt me, hurt me too severely!
【The first, hard to please, general care, love and caring can not satisfy her, so she is not easy to please; the other hand, the source of her love is too simple. other people's love from love, friendship, love, love only to her self love. it needs to pay three times the BF love to meet her, but in terms of the BF is almost impossible, so difficult to please her.
second, more torture you people to achieve. Typically, the person being hurt is very care about her, love her, because only care about her, love her, that people would be hurt, so as to achieve the purpose of injury; if the person is not painful, transferred to can not be completed. in love, BF love her and care about her, so she first thought the pain passed on to the BF to him, that she was tortured by the so-called BF. Therefore, alternative virgins in the torture BF / GF when afraid of people ignore them, the more ignore them, the more they can not stand. If your BF / GF is a virgin, then an alternative, they torture you, you might as well for show, followed them out a few drops of tears, they see you A sad, heart suddenly to cool, then transferred to complete, no longer depressed; done, they see you cry, will feel bad, I'm sorry you are, so they will not torture you, but will so love you more for you are dead set, and selfless devotion hh Oh, we read this description feel? For the love of vixen favorite sayings is: Love is painful (love is pain)】
hh
BF: to even at the end do not speak?
alternative Virgin: You let me say that even at the end? there half an hour. Let's not much time together, enjoy this last time it
BF: Do not alright, Do not leave me, please, please,
alternative virgin: and you, you will torture me, hurt me 【QQ,, BF a long time did not heard from her cranky, feeling humiliated, that kind of spirit to her suffering, injury】
BF: I said I would not, I will not torture you, hurt you 【BF to the standards of normal thinking, doing things, so that he did not torture her, hurt her】
Virgin alternative: you have hurt me, tortured me. 20 minutes, I really want to leave you! these days you have been cruelly I toss you a 【soon proudly shows her good-natured, not forgetting the cause of others damage, heart guilt】
BF: I'm feeling very depressed, I really want to lose a lot of things
alternative virgin: you never been even at the end, it does not matter loss. I was for you, but is suppressed ; and you for me, it is painful. You're not by any visible damage 【tortured her extremely tired and nervous】
BF: You leave me, My Sassy Girl! 【This shows that she usually often applied to physical violence】 BF Virgin
Alternative: There are 10 minutes, a dream will wake up. Oh, the nightmares wake up in the morning I'm very care of time, showing their joy about to break up mm and terror, the joy in their own ambivalence about to release, what can no longer control their own; terror will be re-stuck in their own lonely, helpless】
BF: What you will not want me to go! Do not leave me!
alternative virgin: I am a mentally normal person, my request and thought quite different from ordinary people! and you are normal. We belong to two different worlds. you're like me, but impulsive. as you will bother me, hate me. ah, there are 5 minutes 【visible, not only dumped her once, injuries do not light】
BF: Why the end of this to me, do you really willing to do it? life so interesting? you leave I would really okay?
alternative virgin: I do not want to leave you, I hurts! but I hate you I do not lukewarm 【he felt BF did not respond to her, meet her, is her lukewarm】
BF: how do you I'm neither hot nor cold, then? you in the end what you will not want me to leave? 【ideas to ordinary people to think Therefore, an alternative Virgin confused】
: Well, time came, it was all over! Farewell!
hh
awoke the next morning, he felt a virgin alternative emptiness, loneliness, then send text messages to the BF , asked if he could, and good. BF the rub, so they go on hh
the case above is repeated until BF is supported not go one day, and really leave her so far. By this time, Virgin will find alternative She again being abandoned, being used to play.
above this drama is repeated several times, started an alternative Virgin withdrew from the stage of love: no one would have immunity romance, alternative virgin is no exception. < br> Third, the other quit to break. Who can take a beating all day long? Who watched his wife and others go to bed? Who can endure the endless mental abuse? No, no one is born The masochist, even if there had not been met alternative virgins!
above this drama is repeated several times, began to alternative Virgin withdrew from the stage of love: There is no love, people are selfish , people only love themselves mm This is a how imperfect world ah!
though out love, but the alternative virgin neuroticism and no corresponding elimination, but was abandoned in the catalyst more strongly! alternative virgins go full of revenge on the road: this time they, revenge is very strong, at the risk of the risk of destroying their interaction with each other. For example, the alternative would frequently seduced virgin male virgin (never had sexual relations with men a woman), innocent girls , they lie to go to bed, and only the last, to defile their bodies, their feelings will be severely after the rejection of the; alternative virgin girls will seduce all men, spending their money, squeezing their bodies, when the opportunities They will also get hold of ruin. In their eyes, all hypocrisy, emotion is not important, important is what this evening and the MM / GG to go to bed, it is important after sex pumping what brand of cigarettes and tobacco into mm They only live food they can eat or drink mm, but not no smoke and the woman / man.
on continued
I think we do not like a virgin for many reasons, the case of people are not the same, may be the key reason is that Virgin's relationship is not right:
1. Virgin wants everyone to like him, but in fact, he gets, the more everyone will like him more each like him, because no one needs are the same, Virgin is not possible to satisfy everyone; if really done, it still was not like a virgin, that is absolutely virgin ------ echo their own people is the biggest betrayal of their own, and betrayed a virgin hated;
2. In some ways, is a kind of ability to love and be loved, and Virgin do not have these capabilities
(1) the ability of virgin unloved . virgin birth and the people alienated from Virgin will not and can not accept the tender, because the warmth will burn virgin, virgin can not afford. virgins always maintain a certain distance with people, even husband and wife, appear in the Virgin is nothing but pure two individuals placed together, rather than a perfect harmony, without distinction of the community of life. However, people like to close, like harmony, do not like alienation and can not close. So, Virgin alienation with others in themselves alienated by others out.
(2) the ability of a virgin does not love. virgins is very strong, a hail of bullets do not fear, because of their strong, it can not know other people's sufferings, so cold in the eyes of others becomes . For example, Virgin GG girlfriend's hand was a small hole in the plan, Virgin GG may not even see a glimpse, because he felt it simply is not of events like it, but in the eyes of his girlfriend, a virgin on GG turned into a selfish, inconsiderate, not a model of taste. imagine, who would like a selfish, inconsiderate people will love it ?...... virgin people can not stand, because the Virgin is pest , will someone else sick of. For example, the Virgin's husband said MM 7 pm to go home, the result has not come back after 7 o'clock, at this time will not stand MM virgin, but more can not stand the later, she could not stop called her husband, even if her husband returned, she would not let go, to heart. it plainly, let other people do not know how Virgin does not understand freedom to others ---- were not slaves, people need their own space and time. However, the spare others is to let off their own, binding of others is actually a chain shackled to their own.
virgin birth and alienate people, as for even the end, I fear only God knows. Why we can not know the end of a virgin will be with other people apart, but we can see this phenomenon of alienation is actually exists. For example, the Virgin is difficult to truly love someone, that is a manifestation of alienation; another example, we know that we will cry in front of their loved ones, lost his temper, but most people will put in front of the normal attitude is because a close relationship with our loved ones, and estranged from the general population. but do not know you noticed, many of virgin Doukua their parents virgin baby behaved, sensible clear, is a good boy. To the end of a virgin even good? is actually a virgin and the alienation between the parents. As early as when the Virgin is not a small cry in front of their parents, respectful to their parents , it is conceivable, Virgin older, that sense of alienation will be how seriously!
Thanks to the innate sense of alienation, so the warmth is more easily burned to a virgin, a virgin can not afford to make his strong love for others . Twelve constellation Virgo is the most selfish, but also the most unselfish twelve constellations (of course, whether selfish or unselfish, virgins in a sense, the reality may not really so.) sense of the Virgin to pay is always within more than the return, so Virgin always wanted to get to the outside world are crazy. Once one day find a virgin who loved him, he is very good, but can not afford to bear the Virgin mm are greedy, fragile animals, always want more good things, good things always afraid of losing too much like someone mm virgin love themselves, so afraid to love themselves will one day no longer love themselves mm can not live in fear all day long, and the Virgin also do long-term plan The tendency, therefore, instead of the love lost in n years later, his pain has never been as now, the pain will just do not care, then Virgin will escape this love, he spends his dream to escape the desire to get something .
virgin because you love someone and leave her, to discuss the specific circumstances of points:
1. without ever falling out of love with Valentine's lifestyle is very similar to the values of the virgin, the more likely you want to leave each other small. However, as a virgin and have alienated, so really seems to protect the only virgin in the virgin virgin himself. virgin afraid of injuries, so wrapped himself ruthlessly. When a person fall in love with a virgin, just as with people close to , then a thick layer of protective film that must be shed mm but this is not possible, because that film is the virgin Liming! At this point, we should see each other would give Virgin the full stability, so that was a virgin Your future is not illusory. not, because my heart is not practical virgin, fear and leave the other side.
2. and lifestyles of different values of virgin lover, want to leave each other a great possibility. Virgin reluctant to give up self- do not want to change each other's self-esteem self-mm virgin very strong view in the virgin, compromise is the greatest harm to their self-esteem. We know that when we love someone, you want to, and a man together, to will adjust his style to make you as close with each other and do things that make each other happy. However, once the thing is to make each other happy virgins do not want to do when trouble will come to the mm do not do may be not to each other, do, virgin will feel abject, spineless, manipulated by others. In front of this huge contradiction, Virgin chose not love themselves and love each other, so take butt leave.
3. lovelorn However, Virgin has been hurt. This virgin is the most vulnerable and most terrible. At this point the Virgin, revenge is very strong, at the risk of destroying your own risk. For example, virgin men seduce innocent young girls frequent, cheating women go to bed, and only the last, to defile their bodies, their feelings will be severely after the rejection of the; virgin woman will seduce all men, spending their money, squeezing their bodies, and when will they get hold of the opportunity ruin. They reason this is so, because they can not resolve feelings of rage. When the virgins love someone, their mind is the love-hate mm both want to get close loved one, want revenge inexplicable. In the end, mostly revenge, afraid to hurt again on the psychological peak accounted for, then leave the other side.
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